Hello guys, wanted to ask for your advice. I had a long oneitis on a girl, cut her off almost completly from my life (we have lots of common friends). Got over the anger phase and to be honest i'm quite in a good mood. Next week i could meet her again in a casual social meetup after 4+ months (not just the 2 of us). The party is hosted by a recently reconnected old friend, so i feel compelled to go. She misses me, at least that i've been told by other friends, and i have nice memories with her. Should i go and be nice and positive, but respecting my decision that it's over, or skip the event and be done with it. At the moment i am monk mode, finished first collage degree, lost 25 pounds and i have no interest in pursuing women in the near future, i need to better myself first.