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TheTrenTrannyTrain 5y ago
Competition anxiety.
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This.
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lazydogg9 5y ago
Just because you are incecure doesn't mean she is not.
Blackhawk2479 5y ago
They are all insecure bro, even the 10s.
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Especially the 10s.
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Morphs_ 5y ago
You can still be goofy from time to time. You shouldn't suddenly try to be a whole different person. On the other hand your looks should be congruent with your beliefs and behavior. It's definitely good to become a bit more dominant towards her when it comes to kissing and sex. Try grabbing her head/neck on a random moment and kiss her intensely and then look in her eyes. That stuff melts women. Then say "just try to get used to my new style".
On a more general note, you are pointing out a typical LTR problem. It's hard to change for her, because she knows the old you. So maybe she'll never completely accept you, because she knows where you came from. If that's the case, let things run their course and if she breaks it off, so be it.
Then you'll know your higher SMV will serve you well and the next girl that meets you will only know this improved version and thus will accept it completely.
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I get the same from my wife since I swallowed the pill. You've got to keep frame, but that doesn't mean being a fucking serious bore all the time. Don't be goofy, but be funny and playful. There is plenty of guidance here if you look.
dgillz 5y ago
Absolutely keep doing it. To turn up the fire, so to speak, start hitting the gym.
muddynips 5y ago
Girls like guys a little pudgy... until they don't.
Or a little unkempt... until they don't.
She wants to not have to compete in the marketplace, until she decides maybe she wants to compete in the marketplace.
Concern yourself with how you look against the field, not with any one specific woman. Slip into the trap of becoming what she wants and watch her lose interest immediately.
AND, as an added bonus you may find that your LTRs fears are founded, and you upgrade past her. Sounds like a win-win for you.
Musicgoon 5y ago
Who gives a fuck what she thinks.. Do you like it?
hamstercide 5y ago
You might look like a retard since unless you're working out or dressing well that doesn't mean shit.
>urban style clothing
You mean dressing like a wigger? Or urban style as opposed to not rural style, overalls and checkered shirts?
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
This is the problem.
Scared of losing you.
AND THIS IS GOOD.
oytrp 5y ago
This is just a healthy dose of dread which is good news for you.
Ignore her complaints, just watch how the quality and quantity of sex increases.
Edit: I just saw the pics OP posted. She might just legitimately think he looks retarded.
LLL3peat 5y ago
It could be you are getting attention from other women now, and she also wants to see if your makeover is a fake or if you are really changing. See if the new you is really the new you kind of thing. That's it to put it simply. She doesn't have to like everything about you or your interests btw.
jagdecat 5y ago
Start to wear suits. No matter how weird it seems or you get made fun of, real men wear suits and it impresses even 20 year olds. I know I have them around me.
Two, my LTR gave me shit after I lost 45 KG and started to buy clothes and kept a beard and even got rid of body hair ( which she said she loved previously).
Did I look and feel sexy... You bet. SMV went up.
How she reacted... By hitting the gym when her friends started hitting on me.
Now she likes everything I've done.
fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- 5y ago
Not rocket science. Before, visually, she was probably the prize. Not anymore. Complete power shift.
bosshawg502 5y ago
lol she knows you're looking, and subsequently feeling better, and is worried you'll scoop up some chick better than her. Classic competition anxiety. Basically it seems that before, your SMV was either equal to or lower than hers. But now you've upped your SMV some and created a gap, an imbalance of sorts. Her hamster is going to go wild trying to find balance again. Tell her there's nothing she can do and it's your choice.
jkp99 5y ago
I think this is happening with my LTR as well, what I am confused about is- how can I comfort her, without comforting her. So I will keep improving my SMV, frankly, not hard for a guy in his late 20s who’s never liftet or thought about clothes.
I mean do I just act normal, pass shit tests, own my shit and still show up for her to see I’m the rock and she can build on me?
Not talking about stuff makes sense, but it makes it more and more intense also, she is lost and I don’t know how to react.
Also- when do you know the dread is too much? How do you differentiate shit tests from comfort tests?
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You have a lot of reading to do, little bro. You have to recognize and pass both comfort tests and shit tests in a LTR. I'm coming from MRP and found the side bar material there a literal life saver.
Retstortion 5y ago
She’s bringing you down
Two_kids_in_a_coat 5y ago
Ignoring everything she says, the important question is are you getting laid more? If yes then it’s it’s competition anxiety, if no then maybe she really doesn’t find you that attractive anymore but keep doing your thing anyhow and move up to a better girl.
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hamstercide 5y ago
I see zero change. You look like a skinny pajeet.
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Gthangbabee 5y ago
Very positive changes, looking good man.
SpiderAlpha33 5y ago
Ditching the specs makes a big difference, something I want to do too. Sadly, my parents keep arguing with me saying contacts are bad for my eyes. I'll have to wait till I start making money.
fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- 5y ago
Yup. She’s scared.
drakehfh 5y ago
You have a pussy face. Learn to have a more cocky/confident/aggressive body language.
Youngyoda89 5y ago
Lmfao. True. So true.
Andorli 5y ago
Dude, Delete those ASAP.
Protect you identity.
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Youngyoda89 5y ago
You looked gay af in first pic. Much better in second.
Andorli 5y ago
Account doesn't matter when your real face is on the internet, what is that stupid logic? Nobody is talking about protecting your account. Protect your face dumbass.
AsianWater 5y ago
OP \^ Delete this. Don't get doxxed and called out by feminists. Your life would be over before you begin
BuckNekkid18 5y ago
It's okay, he has an alt face.
Atheist_Utopia 5y ago
hahahahahaha dead
henry589 5y ago
Bruh you are chad lite lmao
Youngyoda89 5y ago
What does lite mean?
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korben_manzarek 5y ago
Don't see much difference between before and after, except for the glasses.
BurningOrangeHeaven 5y ago
Yeah same not much difference except thr glasses and he isnt pouting his lips as much lol
SovereignSoul76 5y ago
...and he fell face-first into a pile of dust bunnies.
meshugamd 5y ago
That beard doesn't suit you
Youngyoda89 5y ago
Some facial hair is almost always better than none at all.
meshugamd 5y ago
False. It depends on face structure and grooming
Youngyoda89 5y ago
Idk. Chris brown used to only be able to grow a bushy goatee and he pulled the look off well
CalvinRichland 5y ago
About the same to me, but do what you want.
MakeMenGreatAgain44 5y ago
She doesn't want competition
person8445 5y ago
Yea you probably look better now. My ex ltr used to say she didn't like guys with msucle when I started hitting the gym
Whodatunkit 5y ago
This. Yup. She scared. My hb whatever, is moving on up. Me? I'm crash landing into the wall....now, where is my beta cuck again?
abudun79 5y ago
Psst, I hope stays between you and me, OP. I'll tell you a secret: She does not have to like everything that you believe raises your SMV. I know, I know, hard stuff, unbelievable. But it's possible that you look worse now, no matter what you buddies tell you.
Be honest to yourself, this is an option. Not every change you do to yourself is an improvement just because you did it. But people don't want you to know that. You must believe everything you do about yourself is automatically a success and those who disagree, like your LTR, are automatically wrong. No exception to this.