Went out on a Tinder date. It went well, had ice cream, held hands. After I dropped her off, send like one of those “I had fun texts”.
She replied with
I think youre a super nice guy!! But were too much alike. I’m sorry :/
Tf does that mean?
EDIT - Already nexted her for my own reasons.
[deleted] 5y ago
Means you bored her.
redpharma7789 5y ago
Will calibrate better for next one
DaishobuDeku 5y ago
She's not into you. Next.
redpharma7789 5y ago
I found it a bit weird she opened up about some deep shit. Definitely nexting her on my own accord, but didn’t understand this text.
DaishobuDeku 5y ago
S'all good. Some people don't like small talk. Try not to get sucked into her frame and take the lead for next time. Practice makes perfect!
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redpharma7789 5y ago
Got it. Being too soft, maybe not fun enough. I’ll try better next time
VikkBlack 5y ago
Try teasing, being a badboy and push pull, these will help balance the soft vibes
rpsheepdog 5y ago
"I think you're a super nice guy"
*gag*
Next her, and use a different date tactic
I will say at least she gave you a hard no
redpharma7789 5y ago
Will do. She opened up about some deep shit pretty quickly, raised some flags for me.
Mako515 5y ago
Tip I’ve learned be a fucking a dick, make her feel like she’s stupid, but make her laugh at the same time she’ll be hitting you up every night to chill.
redpharma7789 5y ago
True dat. I was a bit nervous because I had a dry spell, and I wasn’t as cocky as normal
bluefingerblue 5y ago
No sexual tension. Date felt like a friendship. Women are attracted to men. You weren’t manly enough. Thus you’re too much alike. The more feminine she is, the more manly she wants her man. Guessing you didn’t touch her too much and sexualize it right? In the future, embrace your sexuality. She knows you want to fuck her so don’t try to hide it.
Also, you didn’t next her. She nexted you. Learn from it.
redpharma7789 5y ago
I sorta just grabbed her hand and lead her on the way. I will admit I hesitated to go beyond that.
And when I say I “nexted” her, its because as soon as she started opening up about some deep shit (smokes weed, adopted, etc), there was no way I’d even consider plating this girl.
Thank you for the feedback
Blackhawk2479 5y ago
It means you’re a fucking girl.
redpharma7789 5y ago
Thanks bud
alpha-zach 5y ago
The alike is bullshit. The phrase to focus on is nice guy. She’s not sexually attracted to you, largely cause you lack confidence or come off as emotional/feminine. You prob opened up too much about personal shit.
The way a woman protects her body through being coy or LMR. Is the exact same way a man should protect his mind or inner thoughts.
Men want a woman’s body, women want a man’s mind.
True story. I know a great guy that is a nice guy. SMV would be off the charts if he just didn’t open up and be a nice guy.
Girls have gone on dates with him and literally cried because he’s such a great guy, they just aren’t attracted. Even his features are decent. He’s just opens up and is too nice.
friendandadvisor 5y ago
It means she doesn't want you.
GrandmasterHurricane 5y ago
It means you are about as feminine as she is and she ain't about that gay shit son.
OneBrowUp 5y ago
It means exactly the same that "I just think we're too different". It's either shit test or she's not interested. Or both.
redpharma7789 5y ago
She’s nexted anyways, seems a bit broken tbh