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Girls don't keep anything secret. They talk about anything and everything, that's why every woman you know talks endlessly and never run out of topics.
Never trust a woman's word that she will keep something to herself. The first thing she will do when you're out of sight is text her homies "Ohhh my gosh listen listen blah blah blah de fucking blah"
Wolveryn 5y ago
Yep. You only tell her what you want broadcasted.
dingleburry_joe 5y ago
This couldn’t be more fucking true. They talk about having this personal relationship with you than everything you say or do will be used against you. She always has a best friend that knows every single detail about your relationship. This is why everything needs to be kept at distance. Don’t tell her your feelings ever.
KuroKent 5y ago
Depends on whether the girl thinks the guy is show off material or not
MattyAnon Admin 5y ago
Exactly. Will she gain or lose social status from it? There's your answer.
TrenGod37 5y ago
They are telling at least one of them regardless.
_Last_Man_Standing_ 5y ago
they tell each other even when the guy is "low value"...
I used to hang out with a group of girls... one of them was my wingmen when going out...
because of this they kinda didn't hide nothing from me and they would just talk as if there was only "the girls" present...
one story comes to mind...
when one of them hooked up with a dude that apparently had an "labelo sized" dick...
the whole group kept making fun of him for weeks after...
in my experience they tell each other everything...
and even more details than men ever do...
and they are definitely kinkier than men...
TrenGod37 5y ago
This
WoodenToe 5y ago
For real, I've had two first dates were girls have told me 10 minutes into the date that they hooked up with a famous musician and an NFL player, as if I would be impressed.
si1ma31 5y ago
you were not impressed?
WoodenToe 5y ago
No, I was disgusted. I'd be a little impressed if they had actually dated these guys, but the reality is they forgot about them as soon as they nutted.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Most women erroneously believe that what excites them also excites men too. For instance, a woman who wants to use "dread" on a guy (induces jealousy through various means, like telling she was talking/drinking or hanging out with a coworker to her boyfriend) loses in the end and the guy breaks up with her because he can not stand the feeling of being unworthy her.
However if a guy uses dread, 9 times out of 10 it works like a charm, women love feeling of jealousy and they crave a guy who has options and who can just walk away anytime. They crave a guy who doesn't give a fuck. And then they try to implement same tactics on men and get burned usually.
It's easy to spot sluts since they boast about their CC riding sometimes believing it will impress guys. But it doesn't. It's easy for women to ride CC yet all women deny it and think guys have it easier despite the fact that guys have to make a move first, they have to lead, attract her, they have to pay for everything and they have to do everything in a relationship basically.
jcrpta 5y ago
Nail. Head.
I'm absolutely certain that 80% of my wife's shit tests aren't shit tests at all. They're amateurish attempts to bond by using more masculine banter-type talking-shit-together interaction.
They don't work because when men talk like that to each other, there's a subtle change in body language and tone that says "Only joking, mate". My wife doesn't do that. It's taken a lot of work to realise she doesn't mean half the crap she says.
Zanford 5y ago
This rings true, especially with more masculine women (more careerist, athletic, taller, etc.) The observation makes it even easier to be unfazed by these (not-)shit tests, as you realize she's not even trying to give shit, she just...well it's just poor social skills really.
Attractive women actually tend to have poor social skills b/c they've never had to work on them. If you step back and image a fug or a dude saying/doing/acting the way the hot chick is, it suddenly becomes comical.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Yes, also on point. Noticed it myself.
_quote 5y ago
For some guys that change in language is so damn subtle. Women who tried to hang out with me and my friends in college were absolutely horrified by how “mean” we were. We had one gay friend who was sweet but after a while he just couldn’t handle playing video games with us because we were so harsh.
jcrpta 5y ago
See, here's the thing:
I don't think it's that subtle.
I had a gf when I was in my teens who clearly couldn't see it at all. The way she saw it, you'd think I was in some sort of abusive relationship with all my mates. I know who I'm still in contact with twenty years later, and it ain't her.
_quote 5y ago
Yeah but you’re you and that’s the difference. Clearly for people lacking testosterone, friendly banter is not just subtle but indistinguishable from real actual insults.
BlackVale 5y ago
Women actually talk about sex much more than Men do. And they can’t keep their damn moths shut about anything. I 100% believe they tell their friends and they always have one they tell everything or close to everything to.
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BlackVale 5y ago
The sugar babies I’ve had does the same thing. At first it was uncomfortable as all hell because they would tell me wether it was good or bad and I honest didn’t give a fuck. But I learned to just ignore it because it’s just paychobabble
319Skew 5y ago
True. Fuck a bitch close to a coma and watch all her female friends check you out.
BlackVale 5y ago
Hmmm how does one do that?
319Skew 5y ago
Develop yourself to the point where you are chased and have high value. Gives you better room for error.
Realise that 90% of arousal is mental and you can make her crazy horny to climax before you even have sex.
Learn to control your own orgasm. Stay aroused and don't climax right away. Don't worry about her climaxing but take your time to enjoy yourself.
Watch porn but to learn moves and not jerk off as it fucks your game.
Read books like sex God and the karmasutra.
*Fuck a woman like she is beneath you, you own her body and she's a whore.
Have a lot of sexual partners. Women are different but there's a pattern and you start to pick it up over time.
*Develop your game so you can call her a stupid whore and make her wet instead of angry.
BlackVale 5y ago
Sounds like a plan. Seems like how you say something is more important than wha you say. If you say something and mean it, it will have an effect. The problem I have is that I tend to stay in my head a lot.
Any pointers on developing smv? I am working on getting in shape (I’m really close to my goals in this regard), getting my own apartment, and getting a new car next year. These are things I’m doing for myself and because I always wanted to, but extra icing doesn’t hurt.
jm51 5y ago
In some pua guide I read, one piecce of advice was to give her foot massages once in a while. She WILL tell her mates because bragging rights. After you split, expect some of her mates to show more than a little interest.
BlackVale 5y ago
Why would you give her a foot massage?
TFWnoLTR 5y ago
Could be a foot massage, could be epic orgasms. The idea is do something good that will make her friends interested in getting a piece of you later.
A few of my ex's friends had shown interest shortly after we split and the one I actually banged admitted that my ex had told them all about a little trick I do during sex in a certain position that works wonders and made it sound so good she wanted to experience it herself. She brought it up because I did not do it during the first bang, and she wanted to make sure I did it on the second go around.
Another of her friends who is engaged with my good friend is constantly trying to hook up some of her friends with me and I'm convinced it's because she wants confirmation from them about my little trick. Her friends are all fat and ugly, so I know it's not my bro who is behind it.
Women tell each other everything.
[deleted] 5y ago
What the fuck is the trick mother fucker
MrAnderzon 5y ago
What's the trick
BlackVale 5y ago
Ah I see you sly bastard
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You gonna share the trick?
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hrm0894 5y ago
The foot massage isn't what gets her friends interested.
xddm2653 5y ago
ok well A) have a long dick B) give foot massages
Ricklogical 5y ago
Usually they tell someone. The finest plate I currently know has a huge social chat room where they all talk about sex and other female things
sky_fallen 5y ago
Give us the codes, man.
BuckNekkid18 5y ago
Most of them talk about it. Shit, I don't I remember the last time I met a girl who DIDN'T talk.
RPLawyer 5y ago
Do you tell your bros when you fuck a fat girl with acne?
epushepepu 5y ago
Yeah
[deleted] 5y ago
Do you even have a point?
RPLawyer 5y ago
Yes. You tell about people you fuck when you're proud of it. So if OP is a Chad, she will probably tell her girlfriends she fucked him.
[deleted] 5y ago
Well, that's a fair point. I couldn't tell earlier if you were actually implying something or just trolling.
RPLawyer 5y ago
Lol trolling on this sub is a one way ticket to ban-town so nope!
CainPrice 5y ago
Usually, casual sex is something personal and discreet. Among girls, it's just kind of understood that they have casual sex when they feel like it, but sex just isn't the huge deal for them that it is for us. It's always available, so casual sex is just a thing girls do when they're horny and in the mood.
Maybe it comes up in passing conversation, like "oh yeah. I slept with a guy who did that". But sex isn't a big deal to girls the way it is for us, so they don't run home to brag to their friends about having sex last night with some super hot guy. It's just kind of understood by all of them that they're having casual sex if they want to, without it being a conversational issue.
319Skew 5y ago
Disagree. When one hooks up with a high smv guy it get's broadcast like the opening pitch in the world series. If it's just a "I'm bored and just need a dick in me" then it's mentioned in passing. Also women compete with each about guys buying drinks, the kinda guy they can hook up with, trips they go on and other inane things.
Source : can't always zone out when a fwb or ltr talks.
TheNonNavigator001 5y ago
This is the best, or at least most realistic, post in the whole thread. The knee jerk, he-man woman hater response to this question is to say that all bitches talk about everything and they try to one-up each other talking about all the hot guys they’ve hooked up with and AWALT, etc. But in this case, that’s just not really true.
Women will start to bring up a guy to their girlfriends when they’ve hooked up with him a few times and think he could be coerced into committing to something more serious. This is called the, “we’re together, but we’re not exclusive yet” stage. She’ll say stuff to her hens like, “Oh, I went over to Dave’s last night and we watched a movie,” etc. And then the group will pepper her with questions about Dave and she’ll get the attention and validation from her friends she was seeking when she brought it up.
When it’s just some average guy from Tinder she fucked and then did the Uber ride of shame home at 2am on a weeknight? You’d better believe she’s keeping that one to herself.
DeBrawnMD 5y ago
Yes and no.
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Women are individuals just as much as men.
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That said, they have group tendencies.
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The best appraoch is to assume they talk. Assume AWALT.
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This protects you the most, and lets you control the narrative, whether that's hypothetical or actual.
wobbleelbbow 5y ago
Why you are getting downvoted is beyond me. This is basic RP axiom. Always assume that they talk, easier to live. Not all women talk, some are shy and some of those won't even tell their best friends about the stuff they did, at least not at first and at least, not everything. They will use sugarcoated language like "yeah I have been with this guy, fooled around a bit and kissed in his car" translation: I sucked his cock. You get the idea. But many women talk and probably even more than men.
IVIaskerade 5y ago
Usually.
If you're any kind of decent, her girl friends know literally everything about it unless she's into super degrading stuff.
ML_18 5y ago
“Kiss and tell” , AWALT
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[deleted] 5y ago
"we"? You've got to be kidding me.
alyyy30 5y ago
What do u mean?
[deleted] 5y ago
Why are you on askTRP if you're a woman, lol. Wrong sub.
alyyy30 5y ago
Ok I’ve been meaning to ask this lol. What’s TRP?? Is it just a sub that’s like dating advice for guys??
waynebradysworld 5y ago
Yayaya suresuresure
Dystaxia 5y ago
Yeah, more or less. A lot of general social wisdom but definitely geared toward dating. Fair bit of it's garbage but equally as much is sage advice.
alyyy30 5y ago
I still don’t get it though, what does it even stand for??? Things on it are always a bit aggressive I feel like ????...
[deleted] 5y ago
TRP stands for The Red Pill. And its understandable you think it's aggressive. It's for guys who don't want to get screwed over by women. You don't belong here.
Edit: Apparently, there's TRP for women as well, so I'd like to revise my earlier statement, lol.
alyyy30 5y ago
Damn okay....
I_Luv_Procastinating 5y ago
There's a women's TRP subreddit in the sidebar I think. If you want to take a glance and learn a bit more about us from a female perspective, I'd suggest looking into that sub.
xddm2653 5y ago
That dude's an idiot, there's nothing against you being here if you're not here to troll
I_Luv_Procastinating 5y ago
That sounds kinda harsh. You know there is a women's TRP subreddit right? I don't go on that sub much but I think it's essentially about helping women better serve their alpha male partners in achieving their missions. I may be wrong but I think it'd be better to direct her to that subreddit than to tell her she doesn't belong.
[deleted] 5y ago
I actually didn't, lol, what do they discuss on there?
knowledge-seeker27 5y ago
Depends on the girl and the circumstances is she in a relationship who is the friend will she be viewed as slutty who did she fuck ect ect.
criveros 5y ago
Men do the same thing.
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