Hey redpill, i'm in the army stationed overseas.
Anyways, I have this girl back in the states that I met a long time ago in training. I was always orbiter to her in the first part of my training. We left training as really good friends who'd stay in contact.
For the 2nd part of my training, she had to go somewhere else. I always told her how I'm feeling about everything, and listen to everything she says. Her boyfriend problems, etc. After a couple of months in training I ended up blocking her from everything except facebook because I couldn't stop stressing myself on why she takes so long to text back and why she never says she likes me back, etc. I ended the oneitis.
Anyways, at the end of my training, I moved to another base cross seas. After 2 weeks, she messaged me through facebook asking why I stopped talking to her. After a span of 2 weeks I told her I never wanted to be friends and I just wanted to fuck her.
I made an agreement with myself I'll start talking with her again only if she agrees to come see me in the states for a couple days next time I return. She agreed and we started talking regularly again.
She was all over me all the time and it was pretty awesome because she was never like this before. We talked about all the stuff we're gonna do when she sees me. How she "usually doesn't suck dick but she'll make an exception for me". I kinda caught oneitis again. After a few months she started giving me less and less attention.
Eventually she got a (beta) boyfriend (she complained to me how she broke up with him but got back because he was crying over her and she felt sorry). Anyways, at this point she was treating me low priority while she was still high up on my list. Couldn't go a day without thinking about her or hoping she'd text/snap/call me.
Anyways, I wasn't about to let it go on like this and I pushed a sexual conversation with her but she wasn't going for it. I said she was no fun and she ignored me for 3 days. I asked her to hear me out and told her how much she meant to me. Then we started talking regularly again. But i'm 1000 years in the friend zone at this point.
So to test one final thing I sent a "I'm thinking about you" snap to her with the bitmoji image. She said "You're so sweet." That confirmed everything I didn't want to believe. So I block her on everything once more.
Since then my life has been generally better since I don't think about her all the time now. Anyways, I plan to hit her up in a couple months, (a month before I go back to the states), so I can get her to be with my a couple days so I can fuck the shit out of her.
My question redpill is, she loved me after being blocked after 2 weeks. Will the same thing happen after being blocked for 3 months? Also I know I should probably block her again right after we're done having fun back in the states, but what do you guys think of this?
COORDOORS 6y ago
she made you her bitch, dawg. you clearly still have oneitis. other girls exist. ghost her forever and never speak to her.
jackandjill22 6y ago
Yas.
Skylights1000 6y ago
I'm tryna smash though. That's why I was gonna see if she's down right before I go back to the states. Then after that yeah ghost
[deleted] 6y ago
Best case scenario, she throws you a 'pity sex' bone... dude, don't give her the satisfaction. Walk away while you still have a shred of dignity.
Forcetobereckonedwit 6y ago
Ooof, read your post out loud. Then go to the store and look for a set of balls, cuz she's had yours for years and isn't giving them back.
mrpthrowa 6y ago
How the fuck would we know?
We get all sorts of variations of these questions here on asktrp about what a girl will do.
"will she do x and y"?
The answer is always "who the fuck knows?"
You have a clear sexual strategy.
A clear tactical escalation and ghosting plan.
you go for that and you don't deviate. You execute your strategy and your plan.
If you catch yourself wondering about how a particular girl will react, you're entering her frame.
Skylights1000 6y ago
Why?
mrpthrowa 6y ago
read again. cause you're acting like a 15 year old deep in the frame of a oneties.
Lauionescu 6y ago
Dude, respect yourself! You are an Army Man, not a bitch! Stop planning shit and just ghost the bitch! She doesn't deserve you! You are trained to kill, trained to go into battle without having second thoughts! That is the definition of being Alpha! Stop being a little bitch and be the Alpha you are trained to be!
Skylights1000 6y ago
Haha that is the stereotype huh
Lauionescu 6y ago
You have more of a chance to be an Alpha than me, I'm working in logistics. My father was an Army Man, very Alpha, but he was never home and I got raised by my mother. I would have been an Alpha if he would have stayed home. Never mind, I am becoming one now!
ConfusedEmu 6y ago
Man don't hit her up a MONTH before you get back. That's too much time to fuck up texting, imo. If I were in your position, I would hit her up the week I came back, or maybe better yet the day before.
Maximise the feelings.
The part of your story where you ghost her for 2 weeks and she "all over you", think what could have happened if you actually were there. Now imagine her reaction when you tell her you will be there tomorrow.
MAXIMISE!
jackandjill22 6y ago
This situation is all Fucked up. It's an orbiter shitstorm.
Skylights1000 6y ago
Thing is, she lives 3 hours away from me. She's gonna get those days off from work in advanced. We planned on spending a couple days in a hotel in my city so I think a month is perfect for everything to go smoothly.
[deleted] 6y ago
Honestly stop thinking about her. You're trying to make it so that you can just block her whenever and fuck her when convenient but it seems like what's actually happening is she's doing that to you.