I met this girl at the gym and got her number. She's an HB9 because of a great body and good qualities to make a LTR. Within a week, we hook up but when fall comes along, she moves away because of college. I was texting her just to keep a line out for whenever she comes back. She would respond and then I would wait a few days to respond back to her.
She came home for Thanksgiving for 5 days and told me she was home. She saw me at the gym with another attractive girl and texted me saying that she's glad I moved on and shit like that. She then became salty when she was texting me until I told her I wasn't dating her or trying to. We also tried to hang out when she was home. She tried to reschedule but it didn't line up with my schedule. So she went back up to college without us seeing each other.
We kept up with the texting every few days until she came back for Christmas. She came home without telling me (I know she's not obligated to) and I found out she was home for a good 5-7 days when I texted asking if she was home yet. That same day she saw me in a store with another girl and I had my arm wrapped around her and she was leaning on me but I'm not sure if she saw that. I made eye contact with the HB9 leaving which was my first time seeing her in the store.
So the HB9 responds to my text asking if I was in town with saying she was and that we should probably stop talking because she doesn't know what's going on and that she doesn't want to be apart of it. A few days later, I say: "Oh I didn't realize you were the jealous type that gets mad for hanging out with other girls." A week later, HB9 responds: "Maybe I am, maybe I'm not. But I want a guy that is 100% into me and 100% honest. And that's what I deserve."
I've heard from two friends that she was talking to her ex since they broke up but it isn't certain. It just sounds like she's jealous that I'm talking to other girls. We never made it official or I never said I wanted to be exclusive. Every time I go into the gym, she has shifted her gym schedule to more of coming in to my time and she always stares me down and tries when I'm not looking.
How should I respond to her text? It seems like she's still interested and I have a chance to plate her. Should I just respond with "Ok" and hope she tries to message back? How long should I wait? What would be the TRP method for dealing with this and not lose her as a potential plate? Still new to all of this so go easy.
DadOnDabs 6y ago
I've dealt with these types before. She's at college riding the CC and wanting a stable guy back home too.
Don't take anything she says seriously. Next or meet up to hang out.
MrOpppo 6y ago
Exactly what I was thinking. Only thing is, she has a low n-count so she's probably seeing one guy up there. Could care less. Just seeing if she's down to meet up when she's home.
cheezebob 6y ago
That's what she told every cock she's been riding at college too.
[deleted] 6y ago
Take her off the pedestal first.
redhawkes 2 6y ago
Pussy off the pedestal.
Hamstering cos of oneitis.
Why the deering, use amused mastery.
Another shit test, also the preselection works. Should have arrange meeting and escalate.
You're overinvesting, hence the scarcity.
Refresh your knowledge, there's this one girl
RAiderNat88 6y ago
Right! I mean in the title he states
But then goes on to explain how he's constantly entering HER frame and how she's LTR material. Sorry dude your would be LTR female is getting railed and plated by some jock back at her college.
Reassess yourself and carry on accordingly. May the game be with you.
redhawkes 2 6y ago
Yea, and he made a double post about this one.
MrOpppo 6y ago
Still trying to get the concept of the whole TRP and applying it to daily life. I never said I was a master at this, hence why I'm posting on ASK TRP. I honestly and truly don't care if she is seeing someone else. I just want to know if I'm able to get a bit while she's still in town and how to act accordingly.
RAiderNat88 6y ago
That's ok dude, I'm no Casa Nova. Keep studying. Next her ass and learn from this experience. If she happens to hit you up, set up a date and time at your pad to close. If you fail or she rejects you then ghost her forever. As far as seeing her at the gym all the time, you shit the bed so sleep in it until she becomes just another face in the gym. Your workout time is for YOU. Focus on yourself and kill it in the gym. HB9's and 10s are experts in female game and you may have been in over your head and that's fine. It's all learning, calibrating and practicing for future execution.
htbf 6y ago
Stop negotiating.
"Come over tonight. I will be 100% into you."
MrOpppo 6y ago
Haha, good one. Don't know why I didn't think of this one.
AfterC 6y ago
ahahahaha shit that's delicious
Metalgear222 6y ago
This would be taking her claim/shittest seriously and entering her frame. OP's response about HB9 being jealous of other girls is also entering her frame.
A better response:
"it's not my fault im this attractive"
changing subject completely "how much longer are you in town for?" oh, cool, let's meet before you go back. come to [this] at [time]"
I'd go with the second example as she kept the door open in the shittest with "I'm not sure we should..."
She just needed to be swayed a bit by passing the shittest and not making her feel like a slut.
htbf 6y ago
You completely missed the point of the message. I hope she's a bit more agile with her brain.
ThickDickWarrior89 6y ago
He doesn’t mean he will be 100% into her how she wants him to be. He means he will 100% fuck her.
RedPilledRoaster 6y ago
It’s not entering her frame. He’s in no way confirming he hasn’t ‘moved on’. By saying “tonight I’ll be 100 percent into you” is putting forward the idea that this specific night she is his choice, but other nights she may not be.
Metalgear222 6y ago
It IS entering her frame if you take what she said seriously. You don't have to "overcome her objection" here, you need to not take it seriously in the first place.
I know what it's suggesting. It's supplicating by believing that she actually means what she's saying. It's bull shit, this man already has preselection which would only generate further attraction from a HB9. She wouldn't have responded if she wasn't still interested.
OP take heed, that was a shit test that you failed, in the future, keep it fun and light. She just wanted to test your frame to see if it was stronger than hers before proceeding.
MrOpppo 6y ago
How should I have responded to her shit test? And I thought the same thing, that she wouldn't have responded again if she wasn't interested. So just try to get her to hang out before she heads back up is the way to go.
RedPilledRoaster 6y ago
It’s not taking it seriously. It’s using it to your advantage playfully.
Literally a textbook agree and amplify. Under your logic you should never use the “agree” part because that would be “taking what she says seriously.”
BowlOfCandy 6y ago
"I am 100% honest, you should come over and find out the rest"
RedPilledRoaster 6y ago
Why the hell should she have control over who you’re seeing back home? She went to college, not your fault that you aren’t gonna wait for her entitled ass to come back.
This is good for dread. If I were you I wouldn’t have reasoned with her.
“Come over and let’s see if I’ve moved on.”
Werewolf35b 6y ago
She visits town for five days and doesn't even see you.
She lives out of town.
She's not with you.
She's not yours.
She's mad that you are with someone else because she demands 100% loyalty You are upset about it.Clearly.
You are the problem here.
When she said she wants someone 100% into her but gives you nothing, you should have realized that she's not ltr material she's a snake
Tzeentch_Gnosis 6y ago
Never get into a serious relationship in your 20s, rather just experiment and get used to all the random vagaries of social interaction. Make it a subroutine. An afterthought.
[deleted] 6y ago
God damn, man. She doesn't live near you and barely cares to let you know when she is around.
Stop acting like a trapped weasel when she sees you getting your game on and wink at the bitch. Smile.
Did you lead her to believe you were an item?
W_O_M_B_A_T 6y ago
You dropped frame seriously by trying to call her out on her jealousy.
You dropped frame by trying to define the relationship in any way.
You should have agreed and amplified.
Labels mean nothing. Either she wants to see you when you tell her to meet you, or she doesn't think it's worth her time to be on board with you. That's it.
What you did shows that you're not running a tight game, and occasionally you get hung up on shit women say because reasons. You hesitate to say one thing and then do something completely different (women feel no such hesitation.)
Nobody likes it when their own exploitive, self-serving, narcissistic behavior is paraded in front of them by other people.
100% guarantee she has other orbiters.
She thought she was being sneaky and naughty and exceptional by stringing along multiple guys. But you can't do it to her, wait a minute! That's not fair!
Nobody likes it when you pull back the curtains of their fantasies of exceptionalism.
Go radio silence for three weeks at least, then continue like normal.
liberty1127 6y ago
Fuck this chick...literally. Hate fuck her so hard she'll remember it for her life...or atleast until she gets corrective surgery lol