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zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Get a personal trainer
I started seeing a personal trainer about 10 months ago. Unquestioningly, it isn't cheap and the points made about the means to get into better shape at the gym being readily available online are no doubt accurate.
I can only relate my personal experience that, even accounting for the high cost, ...
8y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Transferring Annoyance/Anger with a Woman to the Sexual Arena
"You can check her on it while demonstrating you don't care. "Hey, I needed you to try that shit on. I don't appreciate the forgetfulness."
Good advice, thanks.
8y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Transferring Annoyance/Anger with a Woman to the Sexual Arena
@gideon_zotero . I've certainly struggle with conflict avoidance my entire life, so you're spot on about that. Over the years of this LTR, I've had occasion to more directly express my boundaries regarding more serious matters and that's been challenging, but also rewarding.
This particular item wa...
8y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Hiring an escort is like hiring any other service provider
Good post. This is a subject I have strong feelings about.
Firstly, one poster mentioned an internalized abundance mentality that one gets in visiting prostitutes(or even having it as an option) and I agree strongly with that. It was a huge help in my life with dealing with women and not giving p...
8y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Divorce costs HALF; Child Custody costs EVERYTHING
I've been looking into commitment ceremonies, without getting legally married: http://www.unmarried.org/commitment-ceremonies/faq/
Apparently, even with that, you still have to be concerned about your state's common law marriage laws: http://www.unmarried.org/common-law-marriage-fact-sheet/
9y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Don't Add or Game Girls on Social Media
"Never respond to texts right away. Wait at least around 10 mins or about 2/3 of however long it takes her to text you back."
Good concept, for sure, but I would say an even more effective strategy would be to be unpredictable in response time. Text back right away every once in awhile, then don't ...
9y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Don't Add or Game Girls on Social Media
Good stuff on texting; those "how was your day?" type of things are a must to eliminate.
I would add one more thing, though. This is something I read once and I've followed it pretty religiously ever since, bearing in mind that nothing is 100%.
Text content should be two things: Logistics(OP cove...
9y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Take ownership of your women
This entire post is pure gold. My GF has even made it explicit: "I like it when you're in control"
9y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: "Why Happy Couples Cheat" from Esther Perel.
"Don't Live Together"
This one's big. Kudos to you for avoiding some common mistakes in your 20's. I wasn't as fortunate/skilled. Did the marriage thing, suffered big financial loss, etc, etc.
Although sex is definitely better living apart, for me, it's more about enjoying solitude, and having ...
9y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: TRP has improved my marriage substantially. Things seem obvious in hindsight but it takes some medicine to fight the disease that society infects you with. Thanks redpill community.
Outstanding post
"Firmly deflecting complaints is like playful spanking in bed."
Gold.
10y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: I'm John Doyle, Husband of The Surrendered Wife. AMA
"Before Laura was a Surrendered Wife, there was an expectation set up long before we got in the car that I wouldn't do it right."
This hit me like a thunderbolt. My marriage in a nutshell. Once there were contractors in and out of our house, and as I left one day I wondered if I should lock the d...
10y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: I'm John Doyle, Husband of The Surrendered Wife. AMA
John, I just noticed this, so I'm late, but I just wanted to say that The Surrendered Wife had a huge influence upon me during the time I was getting divorced, a very stressful time for me. All the negative behaviors of the author, before she modified her behaviors, were an almost exact copy of the...
10y ago - Permalink
zandd23
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Women in Education: A Reflection from my Career as a Teacher
Great Post, thank you so much for this:
"She thinks, this problem makes me feel bad emotions, I associate these emotions with this person, so this person must be punished."
Couldn't be said any better.
"Heavy exposure to male values seems to improve women dramatically."
Current GF has eight brot...
10y ago - Permalink
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