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throwthatspiral
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Burned not broken - first ever approach
To everyone that commented, I approached again, way more calibrated this time
8mo ago - Permalink
throwthatspiral
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Burned not broken - first ever approach
You're right. My biggest takeaway is my frame and dynamic and taste is very polarizing. Social proof bar and "normie" spots are not where I will shine uncalibrated. I am still getting over the hump of frequenting these places that are my scene as a solo though. It's very awkward. I know nobody reall...
8mo ago - Permalink
throwthatspiral
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Burned not broken - first ever approach
Thank you for the encouragement that this path is the right one. I'm pretty stung still and I'm lacking the confidence to approach. I intrinsically am not outcome dependent but lizard brain me is and overriding that sucks. That being said I'll keep a conscious effort to bail out earlier next time if...
8mo ago - Permalink
throwthatspiral
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Burned not broken - first ever approach
Yeah I'm working on getting my weight up. I'm 5'11 with 134 lbs of muscle mass. I don't look jacked but I do look ok. Except thinning hair. It's still kind of there and it doesn't look awful, and I have a full beard trimmed to a 1 with the rest of my hair trimmed to a 1, if I needed to go bald I wou...
8mo ago - Permalink
throwthatspiral
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Burned not broken - first ever approach
My goal was to stand in the fire not create attraction. That's the reason for all the questions. I know it doesn't build attraction but it wasn't for no reason. Appreciate your insight. I'll try day game
8mo ago - Permalink
throwthatspiral
commented in TheRedPill
Re: Burned not broken - first ever approach
Refreshing to hear, thank you!
8mo ago - Permalink

Re: Second approach - I Forgot My Glasses and Found Frame Instead