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houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: I'm very independent soooo I want confident men to approach me.
>Yeah, that was sort of Bumble's entire marketing schtick for its first decade of existence
It baffles me that they ended this practice for the app. With that change, what makes Bumble different from its competitors? The answer is nothing. I get that women do not like initiating the conversation mo...
6d ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Hypergamy is a myth? Most men lack personality? Masculinity is all you need?...What do you make of this take?
The way I read this is that the woman who wrote this does not fully understand hypergamy. Hypergamy in practice is women seeking the best possible man she can for relationships and marriage, and while traits such as physical attractiveness are part of the equation, it is most certainly not the only ...
1mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: On the dating apps everyone's fucking ugly! I'm sorry!
First off, I see plenty of comments on her own appearance. Fair enough, since she brought up looks in the first place. I recall someone in history warning that if you judge others, you will be judged by the same standard. I don't think she is the ugliest woman ever, but I am not seeing her as a gold...
2mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: They don’t actually care about you as a person.
>turning 33
>still wanting a family
Yep, no surprise here that she is emotional. The clock does not stop ticking, and she is at square 1 of getting the family she claims to want. This is exactly why I say that women need to **start early** if they want to be a wife and mother in the future. Because...
2mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Where are the single men?
The straight single men are in 2 categories:
1. The type of man you overlook and ignore. The type that women like this one will never even care to ask if he is single because she will not even consider him.
2. The type of man who has simply given up on the idea of seeking a relationship with a wom...
3mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Chubby, mid-at-best entitlement princess declares what she thinks should be made illegal in the dating world (weekend post)
The voice alone is enough for me to lose interest, IF I HAD ANY! It shows her overall attitude and "humor," which just sounds whiny and annoying. I also am not a fan of the term "bestie," especially with her tone of voice.
When you combine these personality traits with someone who also does not muc...
3mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Do single men, like, like, go anywhere without a chaperone?
I see Target as basically going to Walmart or a grocery store. I am there to shop for things I need, not try to meet women. Though me being off the market for years might strongly affect my viewpoint, but shopping for things is an errand. You do other errands as well without the expectation of meeti...
5mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: My oldest is 6'8"
When you are a short man, you get way too much flack for however you choose to act from height queens. When you come to understand that you will never win their approval, you just need to stop caring what they think. This woman clearly got her wish when choosing a man, but that did not guarantee tha...
6mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Women now just advertise that they’re lazy, money leeching parasites looking to bleed a host. In my day, we didn’t know this until we had already lost everything.
Men should be very wary of any woman who straight up advertises herself as a gold digger. I generally expect women to be more subtle when they are gold digging (e.g. using the word "ambitious" when the word could easily be replaced with "high income" and make the same amount of sense). So it just ma...
7mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: I'm definitely not gonna rush into anything again
Having a set of standards only when it becomes a necessity shows that you do not truly believe in the standard. If you did, you would have the standards because you wanted them, not needed them. In this case, it would be her having these standards before she got pregnant by some other guy. Nothing s...
7mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: A little weekend humor about bullshit terms like "sapiosexual" and what women say vs what they do
In far too many cases the women who say they are "attracted to intelligence" are at the epiphany phase and want to lock down a man for marriage. It just so happens that the intelligent men near her age are now making money and she can proclaim that she wants a smart man, fulfilling both the hypergam...
8mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: It's literally insulting the matches we get...
@Eleseus does have a point, men who can succeed in getting hookups would have no issue with staying on the app. But for those who are not just looking for hookups, but rather relationships, staying on the app is not the goal. So you are correct in that statement. So I will clarify, *those who are lo...
9mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: It's literally insulting the matches we get...
First off, men do not want a "girl-boss." The type of woman who uses that term tends to have such an ego issue that it negates any femininity that she may have. Second, we are confirming that women have a lopsided scale of who they find attractive and unattractive compared to men, where they find mo...
9mo ago - Permalink
houseoftolstoy
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: The pleasures of dating older, marriage minded women...
>gotten it out of your system
This is a faulty premise for a couple of reasons:
1. The idea that you need to "have the experience" because otherwise you are missing out. When it comes to life in general, you cannot experience everything. You have to pick and choose what is in your power to do, and...
10mo ago - Permalink
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Re: I'm very independent soooo I want confident men to approach me.