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girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: How are your interactions with other women?
Was talking to u/rubywootoo not you. Cry for attention much ????
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Feeling very depressed about relationships, sex and men!
> Your husband is Chad.
He's more like Chad's older and more mature brother Brad :-P.
While I left out any beta traits he has, and he is married and starting a family so there are definitely beta traits there...yes, I had a feeling that he would be a man who you would run from.
He and I are ...
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Pulling the weeds
Yeah, the neighborhood I grew up in, we were not allowed basketball nets in the street in front of the house or clothes lines in the backyard. I refuse to do live like that as an adult but it's not uncommon.
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Advice for daughters and young girls?
>IF a man is too insecure to accept I may be more knowledgable then him it is not my fault.
This is a jump in logic that you are making. Just because someone else is smarter than I am, does not mean I do not value knowledge. But perhaps what I'm saying comes across as uncharitable towards these ...
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Feeling very depressed about relationships, sex and men!
FWIW, when I wrote the plate to wife post, it was because it goes against the grain of the standard 'safe' advice on RPW but, I believe, still falls within the bounds of an RP relationship. It was meant to speak to the people in that situation now, telling them they hadn't screwed everything up by n...
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Advice for daughters and young girls?
That conversation was one of the nails in the coffin of my first relationship. I used to believe that it was natural that it went away once you had been with someone long enough. When she told me that, I realized that I loved my ex (and he still holds a place in my heart) but was never passionate or...
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Advice for daughters and young girls?
That's an interesting observation but it doesn't fit with my own personal experiences. To each her own!
My husband is brilliant and I love smart men. My gay BFF is a voracious reader with impeccable recall. I could (and do) listen to them for hours. Even if the topic doesn't interest me, the depth...
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Feeling very depressed about relationships, sex and men!
> I know from lot of reading on this sub that there are women who have gotten ring by doing this.
I'll assume that this part is why you tagged me :-P
Without 'the talk' it is important that there are signs he is showing more investment in your and the relationship. If he's telling you that he d...
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Advice for daughters and young girls?
Your mom is wise.
I think it applies to all of life, not just relationships. There are trade offs to everything. You might have a really flexible job but a terrible boss. Dealing with the boss is the payment for the flexibility. Or you might have a beautiful big old house, but the price you pay is...
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Advice for daughters and young girls?
Like I said, I don't know how universal that part is. My mother thought that was good advice for me. She believed I'd walk all over a man who wasn't at least a little bit smarter than I was. Intelligence is something I've always been attracted to so there was little to no chance I'd have tolerated a...
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Advice for daughters and young girls?
From Mom: You know your husband very well and that means you know just what to say to hurt him beyond belief. No matter how angry you might be, never say anything you cannot take back.
Also: You need to be with a man who is smarter than you. I'm not sure how universal that advice is but I will cer...
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Discussion: Is saving the relationship always possible?
> How to influence your husband has been explained at length in your posts on the book - for women only ????
Yes, I suppose you are right. My faith has obviously been shaken recently :-P.
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Discussion: Is saving the relationship always possible?
I have to imagine that timing is an important aspect to how long you stick around to make things work. If she decided at 23 that she wanted kids and he didn't, it *might* be worth giving up a year to see if he comes around on the idea. At 28 it's a completely different ballgame. At 34 idk what you d...
7y ago - Permalink
girlwithabike
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Discussion: Is saving the relationship always possible?
>Almost every issue can be worked out if both parties are willing to put their egos aside and work it out. Big if but it's possible.
This is one if the things that made me really start pondering the question. In the above case, and occasionally around here, the husband doesn't have his shit tog...
7y ago - Permalink
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Re: How are your interactions with other women?