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Re: ED
Yeah, thats a bit unusual, well, anyways, i have had the problem as i mentioned of being unable to get hard and it was always when *not* on a good streak away from porn/masturbation. How long it lasts after stopping sometimes varied but it always came back eventualy withing weeks pretty much.
But ...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: ED
This is porn/masturbation related first and foremost imo and in 2 different ways. I've looked back at my own experience and i think i have a really good picture of exactly what is going on. Nofap communities have a good idea of whats going on but i think i've pinpointed more precisely the mechanism ...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Disrespect
I agree, i haven't even put in the necessary effort to flesh out a profile enough for it to give very good results, but yes its not something i rely on or even use often.
Atm i don't have any "dating" app. I uninstalled em. I install them like twice a year and just see whats around. Tbh, i still ...
1y ago - Permalink
Re: Disrespect
Well sure my SMV isn't that high because i don't have enough pre-selection yet and i also need to work on my style/profiles but my face AND body are that high, which is why despite all this, i can still pull it off. I've been in the gym for 10 years. And i was wearing the shmedium Tshirt that emphas...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: Disrespect
First off it was at night/dark and secluded place and in my car when i started making those moves. Despite anything else, i'd feel gay not to at least try in this circumstance but i should read the room better and not keep pushing if there's such resistance in that case.
She said its what she prefe...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: Disrespect
ya ur right, i don't post often, sometimes i do with a specific example and at that point its likely to become one of the cases where i'd have invested more than its' worth. Us who are still working on this need that lil bit of corrective feedback from time to time. Appreciate you and everyone elses...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation
The reason why i think the social effects are more linked to your PIED and not the direct additonal side effect of the porn use is because the function of our "manhood" is really closely related with out general feeling of wellbeing as a man and thats why ED in general is so linked with low-self est...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: Advice On Quitting Porn & Masturbation
Well, if you watch particularly fucked up porn or too much/too often, i can see how it can affect you socially.
But the real problem imo is you knowing that you have PIED and it is hurting your self-esteem in every moment of you being out in public and then you act in the way you don't like.
I th...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: I’m On The Verge of Crying: Why Is Everyone I Talk to “Leaving their Hoe Stage?”
"I am on the verge of crying", "about to break down" all i read and then stopped.
its severe inner work that needs to be done man, you will succeed when you truly stop giving a fuck. Detach. Letting go. Look into it.
2y ago - Permalink
Re: would you say even a little bit is a red flag
I feel the same too but as you say no social media at all is indeed very rare
2y ago - Permalink
Re: would you say even a little bit is a red flag
Feel like it depends on the pictures, not like they can ever tell the full story but sometimes you just get that "chads welcome to cumdump at anytime" strong feel and sometimes its more innocent. Ofc, doesn't mean anything, just a flag. Can be hoe either way.
2y ago - Permalink
Re: would you say even a little bit is a red flag
Yeah, thats what it is, vetting and trying to calibrate my view of reality for what it really is, its one of the main things of RP, right.
Wanted to make sure i wasn't crazy for feeling that internal ick and flag raising at even small signs of whoredom.
I think you can tell when something is okay...
2y ago - Permalink
Re: would you say even a little bit is a red flag
I am just trying to not make a grave mistake, you know, i am still learning.
2y ago - Permalink
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