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VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Is it fixable or am I better off exploring a better situation?
> He has you, but wants an open marriage.
It seems he is 'negotiating' to keep her in his life. He likes her as a spouse but wants her to go get her ya-yas somewhere else but still be his wife. This is, ofc, not really tenable over time.
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Men walk after they learn about my commitment before sex requirement
>For some guys sex on the first date is not a deal breaker.
To be clear, I don't expect sex on the first date. What I won't like is a whole bunch of "rules" that get dropped on me 3+ dates in - although I would have pro-actively brought this up before then to avoid that very scenario. I suppos...
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Men walk after they learn about my commitment before sex requirement
> I’ve had tons of dudes lined up to give me attention without me ever sleeping with them.
LOL. What you are saying is, *"I have a lot of orbiters that I don't have to sleep with to get things from them."* I think the OP wants a relationship.
>All it takes is the idea that there “migh...
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: How do your men treat you? As their partners? Wives, girlfriends?
> Did you miss that?
Nope. I just think you are overestimating the size of the group in the "Anger" phase. There will always be a fresh batch of those guys and once they exit, often they leave the sub. Some guys hang around and help the younger guys. But ultimately, I think you are just see...
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Men walk after they learn about my commitment before sex requirement
> Let the guy try to figure them out himself.
So what will the OP do three dates in? Because by then, the dude is going to be expecting an uptick in physicality.
>Guys will follow your lead, but the idea is to not let them even know they’re doing it.
Who are you dating that is this muc...
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Men walk after they learn about my commitment before sex requirement
>Guys like the chase.
I keep hearing this and I think, *"No. I like the 'having sex' part. Without all the drama."* Srsly, I think this is a 'made up' thing. Like when some years ago HR tried to convince everyone that employees didn't care about $$$ they wanted recognition. No. I want mon...
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Men walk after they learn about my commitment before sex requirement
>I don't like the term 'less than' or 'lower your standards' or 'your standards are too high'.
Nobody ever does.
>the problem is not that a woman's standards are too high, it is that they are too narrow.
Sure, if they don't include men who don't meet her standards. Same diff.
>viral ...
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Men walk after they learn about my commitment before sex requirement
>If this young woman becomes the 'sex fairy' and gives it up to every guy she dates without any effort
I never said that. She is free to sleep (or not sleep) with any man she chooses who will have her. I simply pointed out that men and women have competing interests.
>But you seem to be sa...
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: How do your men treat you? As their partners? Wives, girlfriends?
>They're usually angry incels.
Well, hold on a sec. The guys in the "Anger Phase" maybe, but that's not all of us. Do you think Whisper and /u/Protocol_Apollo and I are incels? Usually guys show up at TRP because they just lost their girlfriend in some awful way. That doesn't make them "ince...
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: How do your men treat you? As their partners? Wives, girlfriends?
>master/pet kind of relationship.
I think it's fair to say that this is viable for people who (both) want it. Different strokes for different folks. /shrug
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: My boyfriend said he’s going to marry me!
Congrats and good luck!
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Giving a stay at home dad confidence?
Take it up with the OP.
That said, often people with responsible jobs want to turn off and have someone else make decisions when they get home.
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: Giving a stay at home dad confidence?
She asked how to give him confidence; I merely answered the question.
3y ago - Permalink
VasiliyZaitzev
commented in RedPillWomen
Re: i dont know if i wanna go to law school anymore
How many is a “bunch“? What you are offering is anecdotal evidence about a small number of part-time lawyers that you know. And you are taking that and extrapolating it over the entire profession. It is very much not the “norm”. Anyway you are free to believe what you want, but I think we...
3y ago - Permalink
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Re: How do your men treat you? As their partners? Wives, girlfriends?