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Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: They have apartments that they pay for.
I, for one, love this modern trend of women admitting they only see men as walking wallets. If having your own financial stability reduces your dating pool so severely that most women end up single, then you never really assigned value to love or companionship, it was always a covert financial trans...
1w ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: I'm a catch? But struggling.
> real lack of desirable men in the dating pool
Yeah, because women in general convinced themselves they shit gold and deserve only the best of the best, so now you have a small fraction of men scheduling one-night stands with a different girl every day of the week, while the rest of men have stopp...
1w ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: I've been outside this summer. Nothing.
When half her competition suffers from obesity, she's not doing too badly comparatively.
1w ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: After 5 years of doing everything right.
> She asked me what she did wrong. Nothing.
She did try to do something that usually requires dual-income nowadays, and she doesn't even have above-average earnings to compensate for it. Being able to save only $600 a month when you're supposedly already cutting all non-essential expenses is... not...
2w ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: The struggle wanting a traditional marriage when you have a big personality
Yeah, if you cherry-pick the parts of traditional relationships you like and reject the ones men like, you should expect to struggle. This isn't build-a-bear, she's never gonna get a traditional provider that tolerates her flip-flopping between wanting him to lead and challenging him.
3w ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: What truly baffles me the most...
They're normal in the sense that women don't talk shit about coffee dates and will usually accept if they're actually interested and you invite them on one, but many still hint on their profile that they love a good dinner date.
4w ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: What truly baffles me the most...
Women: "Men, shut the fuck up with your opinions of what women wear! We don't pick clothes or make-up to attract men, we do it for ourselves!"
Also women: "Yo these clothes and make-up are expensive, you gonna pay for my meal or what?"
???
4w ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: I’m going to need to know the name of The Deity that I angered…
13 years on a dating app will get you nowhere if you refuse to put even 1 year into healthy eating and exercise. When you apply zero effort into climbing out the bottom of the barrel, you shouldn't be surprised when people ghost you every time someone else pops up in their matches, because statistic...
1mo ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Single mom laments that it is so hard to find a good man because of racism. It's not because of racism, it's because you're a single mom in the first place
Ah yes, another woman falling victim to Society™. Nothing that ever happens to her is a result of her own actions, it's the evil society keeping her down.
1mo ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Why is it so hard to find somebody with there shit together?
That's fair. I'll concede I jumped the gun about what the guy's looking for, and you bring up a good point about the bottom 80% of men generally being perceived as unattractive by women even though a significant chunk would technically be above average.
1mo ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Why is it so hard to find somebody with there shit together?
> Question: Yes or No: Did the matchmaker indicate, quote "he makes a big point about her match having to pay her half of the bills"?
Being direct, no. That's something I'm inferring from his requirements. Could I potentially be wrong about the guy? Of course. But I think my interpretation of what ...
1mo ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Why is it so hard to find somebody with there shit together?
I take it you're extrapolating that from his requirements, he could have meant that he's willing to split expenses proportionally based on income difference, which would make the relationship worth it for a minimum-wage hottie.
This is proven false by the fact that he's also asking for someone care...
1mo ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: Why is it so hard to find somebody with there shit together?
> Consider the other post I made recently with a followup video below. The matchmaker had rejected a man's profile for her service because he was "below average looking" but wealthy but he wanted an "attractive" woman who "contributed" and the matchmaker found that overdemanding.
The way I see it, ...
1mo ago - Permalink
Everpax
commented in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Re: The reason you are in this position currently is quite majorly due to your own actions.
> They are strong and independent and don't need no man.
This was never used as a justification by women to stop dating men, it was always to push men to try harder. While your advice of simply walking away from dating is completely valid, it's the very thing women don't want to do, that's the whol...
1mo ago - Permalink
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