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Reporting a forum post #222550 by nickdimitrov

TL;DR – if you subconsciously chase security, you will always remain in mediocrity. Why obsessing over being accepted and labeling ourselves often results in stopping at the bare minimum and lacking motivation to approach women, improve, and grow. Why women typically have more controlling behaviours, and ***why they find mediocrity unattractive.*** I want to talk a bit about the problems of seeing success as binary, and having a safety-obsessed mindset, and how that holds men back. Binary thinking goes something like this: “I either succeed, or I fail”; “I’m either perfect, or I’m a failure”

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