I have to say, that I got the feeling, that asking shitty questions is helping in the anger phase.
It doesn't solve anything for you, you still know inside you, that you have to grow and that you are not there yet... maybe not even close... but it helps letting of some steam and then continue forward...
imho even the shittiest questions are OK to get asked. Answering them without too much mocking and seriously pointing out, what concept is not internalized will help others on the pathway.
THANKS to all people answering in askTRP, even to my dumbest questions, comments and whatever I did there and here in the past...
Cant we summarize and copy it into here, so that we have all the info here and it gets mirrored to all the alt pages... I have it as a pdf, to read it on any one given blog, I got the feeling this is just click catching and the try to promote any advertisement income or smth.
I'm sooooo happy I thought the same while reading....
at first I was mhh okay... but then the red/green flags hit me.... :)
Good read, but downvoted, because only a link. At least a short summary would been good.
more and more people just post links here and leave.
Looks for me like you just want more clicks on your site and do only the necessary.
I miss the people that rly want to help this community to grow...
And how to get out of it, if you find one, that no other could beat so far...
The only thing I can imagine is, that is too hard finding goals... If you don't have career goals, because work isn't everything you seach for private goals... which imho are way harder to find out for yourself...
I can only upvote :D and add the first part to the posting. I made sure the second wouldn't happen.
any advice how to do it? good example stories?
I don't want to go from zero to hard destroyer from one second into the other, only because I read something. Want to start slowly, building it up.
please search and replace everything with cycle and I'm ok... except the hurt part. Cycling doesn't hurt :)
yes, when reading here on work time, it sucks to see a video and have to remind me later at home then.
A forced TLDR (TLDW?) for youtube video postings would be really helpful...
Yeah, I can relate so much to this. Very good posting.
One question I have... Did you ever had a oneitis? I lived the same life for the last years like you described it. Worked very well... and then one girl blew me out of my shoes. long story short. She didn't want a relationship, but to fuck other guys too. I said I loved her and put and told her all appointments are cancelled, because I really didn't want to have any me being a pussy about the others...
I still think of that girl and sometimes question myself, if the fun times with the others is worth it. I rather would like to be with the one that didn't jump on the train...
I read it a while back. While maybe re-read. What was the biggest thing in it for you?
I would all put into an nice account that does 3% monthly emission and never have to show up at work, but keep the life I have. Instead of going to work, I would train my body in the morning at around 9 o'clock and then pursue any fine art and try to get real good in it. Drawing, metalworks or woodworking are the things I have in mind.
thanks a lot for your text.
I fucked this up in the wrong way a week ago and I feel better reading how it's done right. Because I got the feeling this is absolutely do-able...
Hope you can wash away your inner conflicts and have fun with her all the time you see her! GL dude!
When I was younger, I always wanted to be a Troll.
A creature driven by instinct, maybe to dumb to know it is dumb.
And then I woke up and understood this is only the fear of the responsibility you have with a working brain. Nowadays my answer is to you question is "oh god NO!"
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