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1164 - [TheRedPill] A story for the Guy who ‘can’t believe she went back to her husband/boyfriend’.

[-] redvelvet_oreo 234 Points 11 months ago

I had the odd experience of a friends girl tried hooking up with me at a lounge that her bf was at we just went for the bathroom at the same time. I turned her down. I didn’t tell her bf which I realize was a mistake now but at the time I believed the shit she said about him which most was true seen some evidence. She told him 2 weeks later. The odd thing is she told him we hooked up and of course he wanted to fight me. I did confront him. She definitely lied about me hooking up with her but he filled up his head with all these other false details. Long story short I’m not sure why she would tell the guy and lie about it since I turned her down. Wonder what the explanation could be for that.

437 - [AskTRP] Why is the red pill sub unavailable ?

[-] redvelvet_oreo 168 Points 8 months ago

The purpose of quarantining a community is to prevent its content from being accidentally viewed by those who do not knowingly wish to do so, or viewed without appropriate context. We’ve also learned that quarantining a community may have a positive effect on the behavior of its subscribers by publicly signaling that there is a problem. This both forces subscribers to reconsider their behavior and incentivizes moderators to make changes.

Just WOW. Guess people can no longer think for themselves.

979 - [TheRedPill] Reminder to keep your T in check: Buzzfeed numales take testosterone test, below normal levels

[-] redvelvet_oreo 43 Points about a year ago

improving those would only have marginal benefit and that person should go on testosterone injections to get their levels normal. All those guys in that study should be going on testosterone replacement therapy.

Its needs to be known that TRT should not be taken unless everything else fails. TRT will fuck up your system for life. Once your on you are not suppose to come off of it. People need to stop recommending TRT as a first response.

To expand on your point about the bodies signaling system might be fucked up. That will show up in your blood work. If you get your LH and FSH measured you can tell if your testicles are not working right or your pituitary gland is not working right. In the event both seem normal it could be many other thing also.

Things to check (basically what OP mentioned)

  • Are you sleeping 8 hours

  • Zinc and Vitman D Levels

  • DIET - Make sure you are getting the correct amount of macro nutrients. Eating a calorie deficit diet to long can make your T go low.

  • Body Fat is it low or high both can effect T levels.

  • If you can psychically, LIFT.

I am sure there are other things that need to be verified and checked also. It takes about 2 - 3 months to see your T levels go back to normal after doing all the right stuff.

Please do not recommend TRT to people. It should be a last resort. They can truly fuck up their system when alot of people can easily correct their problem.

EDIT: LIFT

1164 - [TheRedPill] A story for the Guy who ‘can’t believe she went back to her husband/boyfriend’.

[-] redvelvet_oreo 43 Points 11 months ago

Thanks for the advice man. I cut them both out fairly quickly after that shit. They were both nuts it was sad cause I lost a good friend but he let his relationship take over his entire being. The beta in this dude was/is strong.

437 - [AskTRP] Why is the red pill sub unavailable ?

[-] redvelvet_oreo 42 Points 8 months ago

lol exactly. In what way can you even measure that? Imagine how long it might even take for a person to change there mind and agree with reddit that banning a subreddit made them realize what they were doing was "wrong".

This is a load of shit. Its amazing how far SJWs can get. People whine and complain and get what they want.

I have been on TRP for 2 years. I have been on many other subreddits and seen them talk shit about TRP. Some of the comments I read or so ridiculously wrong a bout it as well. You think these people take any real time to understand whats in this sub and for that matter any other sub they dislike? Even if they did alot of people read one thing and just believe it even if factual evidence is in front of there face telling them different.

How do we measure how many men this sub has helped? And women for that matter. Create better men you have happier women.

Ok im off my rant. What a shit show.

23 - [AskTRP] Been going on dates recently as I’m ready for a LTR. Met a girl I like but found out she makes $500,000/yr. More than triple what I make. How do I handle this?

[-] redvelvet_oreo 39 Points 10 months ago

Dont brain fuck this. She is like any other woman. My current LTR makes 250K and can make up tp 450K - 500K i(I have seen the job offers in the mail) in another state but moved to my city just to be with me. The key here is not put her on a pedstal or let her job/title/salary make her seem higher value than you even if thats true.

Her salary is irrelevant. Go about this the same way you would treat any other plate. The difference here is entering an LTR you will be on hard mode now. You will have a constant test of frame. There will be times you need to compromise and be more "beta"(more down the line like after being a year in). For me the biggest things that have worked for me in this LTR is:

1) Never show weakness.

2) Never complain to her about your problems. EVER.

3) Occasional dread needs to happen. It can be very light hearted depending how insecure your LTR is.

4) Lead and say no. Leading I found is harder with a woman who already thinks she is a leader and "alpha" but your frame has to be bigger than hers. She will try to impose plans and things to do on you and try to suck up all your time. Say no. Create your own plans that you have fun doing and bring her along. There will be a time you will have to give in to her shit but at the start you gotta establish who is the real alpha.

5) Create boundaries and use her imagination to your advantage.

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6) Dont be afraid to walk away from the relationship and dont use the money she makes as a crutch for finances. This is so important. Alot of dudes I have spoken to wish they were in my situation just because it would be easier for them financially and t hey would have to work less. This is bullshit and should not be a factor. The only time her earnings should be a benefit to you is when you go on vacation together and you and her chip down to g et the coolest high status rooms and resorts. She will treat you in terms of dinners and vacations way better than any other plate just because she can afford it. Play your cards right. It can be a very enjoyable experience.

7) Still be the man on a mission. She will admire your dedication to your mission.

1653 - [TheRedPill] Saw TRP in Action at my Job; I Buy it Now

[-] redvelvet_oreo 32 Points about a year ago

I just want to chime in on the "something" mr.chad did to help get his job. I'm sure his looks helped him to some level but to be quite honest your social skills weigh a lot more I have noticed. I am great at my job and I use to be jus let like you and it got me no where most of the time besides people thinking I was an asshole and a mr know it all. Fast forward post TRP...I started looking for a new job and interviewed at a very well known company. I was hired within 3 interviews the whole process was relatively quick. My boss told me months later they hired me for my personality. He said he knew I was smart but my personality won them over and if my knowledge wasn't the best they would have been patient and let me learn. During the interview I managed to connect with both interviewers and have a sense of humor along with knowing my shit. Suffice to say being able to game people and past shit test from either males or females will establish a comfort with them making you more likeable. This is what helped me and what I think may have helped Mr.chad you refer to.

339 - [TheRedPill] “Dear Nice Guy, I Wasn’t Ready For You Before — But I Am Now”

[-] redvelvet_oreo 27 Points 8 months ago

LOL bro before I found TRP a girl I use to orbit this girl and she disclosed her n-count was 68. At the time she was 23. Shes like 26 now. I recently bumped into her and just briefly catching up with her I can tell that shit is definitely in the 3 digits just based on what she was telling me. With the availability of Tinder girls can easily get in triple digits.

61 - [TheRedPill] [FR] AWALT - freshly used condoms in her trashcan

[-] redvelvet_oreo 26 Points about a year ago

I think her giving LMR and backing down once was ok but then giving into her massage demands and denying you again should have been the time you got up and left. SHe might have chased you she might not have but the chick dosent even sound worth it. She sounds like she has bee around the block quite a few times. I would stay away from someone openly admitting they almost OD a few times etc etc.

Also I hope you are keeping condoms on you. Dont forget to wrap your cock son!

160 - [TheRedPill] Older woman gets mad after I drop her for another woman. [FR]

[-] redvelvet_oreo 24 Points 8 months ago

Can’t quote on mobile but why did you give her so many chances to lead you? Why even ask her where she wants to go? You should be telling her where you guys are going be the leader.

I can bet you she was just some horny ass chick because I can pet money if it was another post wall bitch she would have been trying to lead you around and then get turned off by the fact that you let that happen. I noticed a lot of post wall women always trying to be the man these days and are miserable for it.

653 - [TheRedPill] Lift

[-] redvelvet_oreo 23 Points about a year ago

Going to jump on the band wagon here. This was a good post until you brought up TRT. I keep seeing people rush into TRT without even trying to boost there T naturally or even understanding anything about their endocrine system. This is a serious life change and people should be well informed of what’s about to happen to their body. For all the idiot newbies here do yourself a favor and start learning to be an “Intelligent Alpha” and think before you start sticking your body with shit. I’m not saying TRT doesn’t have its place but I think it’s a very very very small percentage of people who really need something like TRT. Most people it’s a diet change, life style change that needs to happen. Hell for all you know you have a fucking tape worm sucking all your nutrients and giving you Low T but you decide nuking your Pitutatary Gland is a better first approach. Unless your T level is way below reference range and you have extreme sympthoms and tried everything under the sun to get your T up don’t go on TRT. Understand how FSH, LH, SHBG, E2, Prolactin all work before even considering it.

224 - [TheRedPill] Blue Piller waits 3 years to meet Tinder match on Good Morning America, Girl is repulsed at the Guy's clingyness

[-] redvelvet_oreo 23 Points about a year ago

Damn its hard to watch this dude. It reminds me how I was with this one girl I thought was a unicorn I met on the internet a few years back and makes me feel fortunate I found this place called TRP. Maybe he will get lucky too and find the rabbit hole after the eventual breakup.

783 - [TheRedPill] Behavioral Loops

[-] redvelvet_oreo 22 Points 4 months ago

Great post I hope this gets alot of upvotes because this is really important to understand. Im currently in the process of breaking bad habits and getting back into my workhorse mode. The last year I worked like crazy and decided to chill out the last few months doing the bare minimum and then took an extended vacation.

I cut out drinking. Im still going to the gym. My biggest issue is getting back into studying.

I find it harder to get back into things if you done them already. I use to study for hours with ease and now its like my brain muscle atrophied and I now need to start all over again. Its like not going to the gym for 3 years and starting with just the bar mentally. I been studying 30 mins every other day. By next month I intent be back to at least an hour a day and take some certifications.

What you said about younger people is so true I made a post about something similar. The biggest issue with younger people is they never developed a way of doing anything yet and struggle and find the quick hits of dopamine. They are so lost and cant find a way out. There are no shortcuts in life.

Great stuff man glad to see your back on the saddle.

979 - [TheRedPill] Reminder to keep your T in check: Buzzfeed numales take testosterone test, below normal levels

[-] redvelvet_oreo 21 Points about a year ago

"Bro Science" Ok dude you go have fun and play around with TRT. You fuck up your ability to produce T naturally when you start it. Only a BRO would go on TRT as a first response to a low T diagnosis instead of trying to correct the problem normally. TRT should only be used if you can no longer produce T naturally. I think it makes sense to prove that to your self then to just jump on the TRT bandwagon. A doctor can monitor your levels but as with anything you should understand what you are getting into and understand all the risks involved. After all it is YOUR body that you only have ONE of. The doctor can give a fuck less if your body goes to shit.

435 - [TheRedPill] Post mortem of a LTR with high-value woman, 10 lessons learned.

[-] redvelvet_oreo 20 Points 3 months ago

Can you make a post about starting a successful business? Im in the midst of getting things together to start a small tech business.

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