Yea you probably look better now. My ex ltr used to say she didn't like guys with msucle when I started hitting the gym
I am only halfway through the book - how does that quote relate?
I would read how to win friends and influence people + another which i forget the name, something like '92 ways to talk'
I agree with this. Perfect your deadlift form with light weights high reps. Up the weight and lower the reps as you feel more confident. This is literally how to strengthen your back muscles so its hurts less. Worked for me anyway.
Hey im a bit of a TRP noob - isn't telling the girl that she is flakey poor frame plus lack of abundance? Happy to hear why I might be wrong
Agree. Happiness = reality - expectations
This was a good read, so thanks op I will try to apply.
However, it seems to conflict some of my learnings regarding covert communication rather than overt. Is anyone able to reconcile that for me?
Theres a quote which I can paraphrase (badly), i believe the original context was the societal level, but for me I think about it for my individual life as well.
"Good times make weak men, weak men make bad times, bad times make strong men".
It will make you stronger. Dragging your ass to the gym when you don't want to go is more of an achievement than going because you enjoy it.
Its also to do with 'delayed gratification'. In general its easier to do things that ere definitely good right now than maybe better later. Working out is effort over being ripped eventually. Approaching is scary over maybe getting laid later. Jordan Peterson wrote about it. Resonates with me.
I am more than capable of approaching a girl on her own. The idea of approaching groups feels like a completely different ball game. Any advice or recommended reading?
I get it too. Not as bad from the sounds of it. But I'll make incredible progress - like, I can actually fucking talk to girls now (which already sounds lame that its even an achievement). I even fucked a girl from tinder (I know, hold your praise). Anyway, I'm proud of the progress im making even if I have far to go BUT even then, I'll still feel like shit for tiny stupid things like a girl taking a long time to message me or making mistakes in my game. Anyway man, typing that out actually helps realise how I can let my emotions override my logic xD
Well. That seems like a conclusive concensus. Ty. Is the idea that it would cause drama therefore bad?
Sounds like you are chasing her a bit now. Id stop texting and maybe she will message you in a few weeks. Your turn might be over tho.
I like this. I think you need both. Part of trp could be considered product development and part could be considered marketing. Both are important. Although eventually if you transform your product (you) to be great enough - it will sell itself.
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