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0 - [TheRedPill] It is bad to be a virgin and what should I do?

[-] Monnahan 1 Point 3 months ago

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Is it bad to be a virgin? Well, that depends on what religion you follow, and on WHY you are a virgin. For instance, a man may be a virile male and a virgin at the same time, just because he has not found the right woman, or because he is not about to get anyone pregnant or "in trouble", as they used to say. These are honorable reasons to be a virgin.

There is, however, very little practical value in virginity, and if a male gets to the altar with his bride and is still a virgin, he will know nothing at all about sex on his wedding night, and will not be able to give his bride what she wants and needs. And that inability will certainly be an issue down the road in the marriage.

So the question is, is there any honorable way to lose one's virginity and gain sexual experience and prowess even before one is married? And certainly there is. There are so many willing sexually active young women afoot in America who are not looking for either love or a husband or a permanent relationship that losing one's virginity without breaking someone's heart is not difficult. One has to be a well-built, attractive, approachable male, and this helps. Being an athlete helps. That does not have to mean you are on a sports team, but it does mean you need to be spending real time working out at the gym. If you are on a team of some kind, you should know that girls practically fight over male athletes in high school....no, not practically, they actually DO fight over male athletes.

If you are beyond high school, the real question is, how do you meet women who will give you what you need, and take what they need, without trying to rope you into marriage? In any case, a man who wants to be attractive to women must work at it--physically, mentally, and via his wardrobe and even his cologne. I know a beautiful counter girl who can't be more than 20 years old who helps me pick after shave and cologne. But just as men expect women to work at being attractive, the road runs both ways, and we must do the same. Otherwise, why would anyone make fun of you? You don't go around bragging or lamenting about being a virgin, do you? And if someone asks, lie to them. Don't say "none of your business", because then they will know you ARE A VIRGIN.

0 - [TheRedPill] It is bad to be a virgin and what should I do?

[-] Monnahan -1 Point 3 months ago

Is it bad to be a virgin? Well, that depends on what religion you follow, and on WHY you are a virgin. For instance, a man may be a virile male and a virgin at the same time, just because he has not found the right woman, or because he is not about to get anyone pregnant or "in trouble", as they used to say. These are honorable reasons to be a virgin. There is, however, very little practical value in virginity, and if a male gets married and is still a virgin, he will know nothing at all about sex on his wedding night, and will not be able to give his bride what she wants and needs. And that inability will certainly be an issue down the road in the marriage. So the question is, is there any honorable way to lose one's virginity and gain sexual experience and prowess even before one is married? And certainly there is. There are so many willing sexually active young women afoot in America that losing one's virginity without breaking someone's heart is not difficult. One has to be a well-built, attractive, approachable male, and this helps. Being and athlete helps. Girls practically fight over male athletes in high school....no, not practically, they actually DO fight over male athletes. If you are beyond high school, the real question is, how do you meet women who will give you what you need, and take what they need, without trying to rope you into marriage? In any case, a man who wants to be attractive to women must work at it--physically, mentally, and via his wardrobe and even his cologne. I know a beautiful counter girl who can't be more than 20 years old who helps me pick after shave and cologne. But just as men expect women to work at being attractive, the road runs both ways, and we must do the same. Otherwise, why would anyone make fun of you? You don't go around bragging or lamenting about being a virgin, do you? And if someone asks, lie to them. Don't say "none of your business", because then they will know you ARE A VIRGIN.

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