Go get drinks with her if she starts to get sexual put your audio recorder on and show your buddy.
This. Follow up half way through with a "You're bed at this."
Use the 6 to game the 8. Hit on the 6 and make the 8 jealous. Then when the 8 inevitably shit tests you you tease her to the 6.
"Does she always act like this?" - to the 6 about the 8
Smart call on not fucking that girl. I commend you on that one.
Be careful of going overboard with this like I did. It works on club and party sluts but having this approach in day game rarely works. Try aiming for the asshole with a smile. Basically laugh and treat them like a child but don't come off as a dick. Try coming off as an adult who doesn't take their child seriously.
I do sales and I can compare it to when someone tells me they are "just looking" or "just bought last year". The average sales guy says "okay let me know if you find something you like" and let's them leave. I, on the other hand, follow up with "what kind of vehicle are you looking for? / perfect time to trade while your vehicle still has great equity!"
Same shit different concept. Move past it and continue the sale.
Could be her friendzoning you, could be a shit test. Best reply would be a pressure flip.
"Yeah you're like a little sister, already have the annoying part down too!"
Nice post. Things I would add.
1) Your first touch can be very simple. If it's a date I always open with a hug. If I meet her at a bar I'll comment on a piece of jewelry and touch that area. So if she has a ring I'll grab her hand to inspect for a second then say "I like your ring, is it for something special?"
2) The second level touch. I like to get playful with it for the second touch before getting more intimate. This is great for social settings or if you really don't know the girl too well. I'll lightly push her out of my way or bump into her joking around. Then simply push her far away and pull her back with a hand hold or ramp it up to the kiss.
3) Third level touch is my favorite because it really gets the tingles going and it's simple. PICK HER UP. Throw her over your shoulders, cradle her in your arms, or hell if you got the strength pull a dirty dancing. They love this shit and you can immediately pull her in for the kiss when you set her down. I also like to add some emotional spikes by pretending to drop them.
I actually did drop a girl once after a heavy arms and upper body day. Just laughed my ass off, made out with her on the ground, and then went inside and fucked. Good times
Someone mentioned this already but sex is supposed to be awkward, funny, hot, and messy. It's not supposed to be perfect and it never will be. Once you accept that all your problems go away. PE gone, ED gone, refractory period gone. Have a bunch of sex and just get the hang of it. Let her know you're not very experienced (don't say virgin). It will put you at ease.
I've dealt with these types before. She's at college riding the CC and wanting a stable guy back home too.
Don't take anything she says seriously. Next or meet up to hang out.
Ignore her. Basic translation of what she said is, "I rode the cock carousel, met a Chad, he alpha widowed me, now I need a beta bucks. Come back to me!"
Here is what you do next time.
Kiss her for 5 more seconds and push her off of you. Get out and go for a walk. 10 min later try to escalate again. Same thing? Do something else for 10 min then try again. Same thing? Take her ass home. 3 no's is a clear sign it's not happening tonight. Don't ever explain anything with them or try to reason with them because they don't understand it.
P.s. never apologize. It makes you look like you knew you did something wrong.
This is retarded. This is scarcity mentality at its finest. There are 3 billion girls out there. If she cheats she isn't worthy of being in your presence. That is why you ghost. Not because you can get pussy. Because she s a stupid whore.
I'd avoid continuing to approach at the gym, one or two here or there casually isn't bad but you don't want to become "that guy".
3 date rule? 1 date rule. She has 1 date to show me why she deserves a second. Doesn't have to end it sex but for damn sure not a fucking cheek kiss ????????
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