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152 - [TheRedPill] "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP lay

[-] BlueEstee 62 Points 6 months ago

Gay hipster shit is my specialty.

152 - [TheRedPill] "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP lay

[-] BlueEstee 20 Points 7 months ago

OK, so you wasted four dates, wasting hours of your precious time on each one, to fuck a simple Tinder slut.

I no longer have joy in casual, quick sex. I tried that, was fun for a while, but now it's not anymore. I chose to try to actually get to know the girl. That way sex is more enjoyable for me. I chose that. Not everyone has to be a Chad Thundercock fucking a girl 10 seconds after meeting her. I don't aspire to be that guy. Does it make me less of a man?

You have idealised her in your mind...

Where did you draw that conclusion from? Simply because I decided to actually get to know a girl? My oneitis is creeping in because I sat with a girl and have a conversation? What? Please elaborate, because I simply don't follow.

Going further with that logic, if I smile to a receptionist and I wish her a good day, I instantly become her orbiter.

...and you pretend and try to convince us that it was your choice that she didn't put out sooner.

I'm not a Chad and I don't claim to be alpha. I chose not to kiss her on the first date, even though she wanted. Could I fuck her on the 1st date? Maybe. But I didn't care about that.

Every woman has the potential to be a happiness-sucking bitch. Every single one. No exceptions.

Please read carefully what I wrote:

"Yes, AWALT, I agree 100%. But just like not every man is a rapist, not every woman is a happiness-sucking bitch (she might be though if you're not careful enough)."

Just like every guy can be a rapist, every woman can be a happiness-sucking bitch. But not every woman is at the moment you meet her. And she might never turn into one. The good thing is that it also depends on you.

THEY ARE ACTRESSES, NATURALS AT THE ART OF MANIPULATION. Wake the fuck up. You're taking her WORD for granted after meeting this slut on TINDER. Wow.

Yeah, I guess I made a mistake by taking her word for truth instantly.

Good work on getting your dick wet, but you have a long way to go before you can say you are redpilled.

And I hope I will never claim to be redpilled, a pickup expert, an alpha or a Chad. I know I have a lot to learn and I believe that learning never ends. The moment you claim you know it all it's the moment you turn into a fool.

121 - [TheRedPill] "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"

[-] BlueEstee 17 Points 9 months ago

Yeah, after she left I realized I had an opening there. I was trying my best not to show it, but I was a little butthurt about that rejection, that I didn't notice that she might have been down to stay. Oh well, I won't make this mistake again.

121 - [TheRedPill] "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"

[-] BlueEstee 15 Points 9 months ago

That's the very reason why I haven't talked to her since.

121 - [TheRedPill] "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"

[-] BlueEstee 10 Points 9 months ago

Love. Three guys have told her "I love you" this year.

152 - [TheRedPill] "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP lay

[-] BlueEstee 9 Points 6 months ago

I've heard this line "we're not having sex" before in different variations ("I have to pace myself" for example), it's a standard line a girl says when she doesn't want to feel slutty and just wants sex to happen.

The next morning we were making out and fore-playing on her couch, when I told her "let's listen to some music in your room". A fun and indirect way of saying "let's have sex".

152 - [TheRedPill] "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP lay

[-] BlueEstee 8 Points 6 months ago

Apparently you know me better, so fine. I am a beta cuck. And you wasted your precious time on a beta cuck. Have a nice day.

121 - [TheRedPill] "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"

[-] BlueEstee 7 Points 9 months ago

"Wise man learns from his mistakes, wiser from other people's mistakes".

Be the wiser man.

121 - [TheRedPill] "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"

[-] BlueEstee 6 Points 9 months ago

True. That's the reason why I'm here, to un-beta myself.

152 - [TheRedPill] "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP lay

[-] BlueEstee 4 Points 6 months ago

I enjoy making girls cum. I tried to make her cum by fingering her, I got her a few times to the edge, but she never could orgasm for some reason. I'm patient, so whatever, I enjoyed my time.

121 - [TheRedPill] "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"

[-] BlueEstee 3 Points 9 months ago

Thanks for the advice. In hindsight, this is definitely what I could have done. But to be honest, I didn't notice that opening, because I was butthurt about the rejection, and still to this day I'm not that huge into fucking a girl that's taken. I'm not sure if the pleasure is worth all the drama that follows.

152 - [TheRedPill] "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP lay

[-] BlueEstee 3 Points 6 months ago

She told me she was surprised because usually after she said that guys would leave. I just shrugged and continued as if she didn't say that, making out, taking her clothes off etc.

152 - [TheRedPill] "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP lay

[-] BlueEstee 3 Points 6 months ago

Valid question, did she win? Yes and no.

Yes - I told her the truth that I'm not seeing anyone else. No - I still plan to go on dates and not give my exclusivity easily. She seems like a good LTR material, but I need more vetting.

Four dates to smash can seem like a lot, but honestly I don't care. She might have fucked other guys on third, second, first dates, or maybe she even gave head to a random guy in a club, while another guy was fucking her ass - I don't care. She's not my girlfriend, she's a plate. And I don't feel like less of a man if other guys managed to fuck her sooner. It's not a competition.

152 - [TheRedPill] "You know I won't have sex with you" - my first post-TRP lay

[-] BlueEstee 3 Points 6 months ago

Thanks for that comment. I believe you're right, I am lucky and as I recall my past lays, I often was weak and not taking the lead. A lot of the times the girl had pretty much spread her legs right in front of me without me initiating anything. Thank you, I realized I have to be more proactive and courageous. Cheers!

121 - [TheRedPill] "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"

[-] BlueEstee 2 Points 9 months ago

Next time you see a smoking hot girl, observe your reaction. Compare it to your reaction when you see an average girl.

You'll be more calm during the approach, you'll maintain the frame easier if you get intimate with her, you'll less likely to develop oneitis for her and it's gonna be easier to move on if you break up.

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