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608 - [TheRedPill] TheReason We All Ended Up Here

[-] NextBad 9 Points 4 months ago

Men issue aren't their flaws, to be flawed in human, this is male hate, you don't need to be superior, women aren't a indicator of anything other than understanding their physiology.

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Women do love you for who you are if you love yourself. Getting women doesn't mean your life is good, or successful or healthy, it's just mean your getting women,

592 - [TheRedPill] Nice or Asshole? How healthy are you? How healthy were you?

[-] NextBad 2 Points 4 months ago

> I see many guys who have been ‘nice’ to women, only to get nowhere. Maybe a lot of these guys think ‘well, being nice didn’t get me anywhere, so maybe I should just be a cunt’.

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This is the beginning of self correction, you are seeing a new pattern, you are making radical changes, a sign of intelligence.

You choose a hateful ideology , a feminist view point, there is nothing wrong with challenging social norms. The definition of nice and asshole

is political and made to serve women.

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> Many ‘nice guys’ don’t realise it isn’t their ‘nice’ behaviour that is the the true turn-off. It’s the fact that these guys are unhealthy.

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No , women say they will marry you when they are 30, you are safe choice.

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> A RedPill/Alpha can simply be a healthy male. He has high self-esteem, self-worth and self-acceptance. He pursues what he desires, because he believes he is good enough to have it. He makes his desires, wants and needs his main priority. He is honest, direct and clear about what he wants. He doesn’t people-please, seek-approval or validation. He doesn’t seek happiness from others, but knows he is responsible for cultivating it in himself. He has boundaries. He can handle conflict and confrontation. He deals with things there and then. He doesn’t put up with shit. He is self-accepting. He owns his insecurities, limitations and flaws. He puts what he wants, above her. He can use rationalizing and logic to over-ride negativity and limiting self-image before they’re internalized. He takes rejection like an adult. Is non-needy.

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Nice guys do all these things and quite a few alpha are lacking, you are once again using a female narrative, to virtue signal.

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> Women are attracted to strong, healthy males. If you weren’t that, and my description of Nice Guy traits resonates with you, then own your part in things.

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Shaming male for not being successful with women, men issue aren't themselves, it's a reality issue, once I understood reality , I was able to get women, I push for sex more, I walked away when no sex was promised, that was my real change,

306 - [TheRedPill] The guilt of being red pilled

[-] NextBad 1 Point 7 months ago

This is why we see so many man redefining the red pill within a blue pill context , or saying every 5 minutes that we don't hate women. The truth will always be the truth

477 - [TheRedPill] The Red Pill is about having control over your own life.

[-] NextBad -1 Point 7 months ago

> Even if a seemingly random tragedy befell me, I could most likely trace it back to a seemingly innocuous moment where I zigged where I should've zagged.

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Blaming yourself for abuse and tragedy and a uncontrollable event is trying to achieve control when you clearly can't.

This isn't empowerment this is working ass backwards.

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> , and I end up not really needing the redpill all that much because my life isn't in a free-fall anymore.

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The red pill is reality, but men are so damage emotionally that this is offensive to them because it offends a very small amount of women. It's based off the movie the matrix in which neo can take the blue pill and keep being lied too or the red pill and learn the truth.

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As human we are typically self serving creatures if we understand that doing xyz gets abc than we will do it.

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> I lifted. Ate right. Got educated. Toughened up my frame.

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These are all very different things, but not red pill related, education is within the realm of blue pill ideology, your life , is your responsibility

1023 - [TheRedPill] You will never be ready.

[-] NextBad 1 Point 8 months ago

Thank you for writing this, lately this community is all, build a amazing life, radiant some energy and women will be a by product..

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You learn about things by failing, after 20 to 30 rejection you will learn the little things, and the subtle lighting

98 - [TheRedPill] There Is More Than One Blue Pill

[-] NextBad 3 Points 8 months ago

I agree with you, not quite some why every current civilizations thinks they are intellectually superior , given the fact that most people would die living in the conditions our ancestors did

575 - [TheRedPill] Your Story

[-] NextBad 1 Point 8 months ago

no, most men don't want to be insecure, most men give to much, to much time, money, and attention. there is no version of yourself, most people want to be themselves but are taught being yourself is hateful. Lets not victim blame

434 - [TheRedPill] How not caring got me a one night stand with a hb8

[-] NextBad 1 Point 8 months ago

Since I paid for the pizza, I proposed they buy the first round of drinks.

convert contract but the balls to demand it rather than cave under pressure. This is manipulation.

no negging

teasing is negative, if you like everything about someone you are not authentic

This is inner game and outcome independence at their best.

This is a last ditch attempt to frame your blue pill fantasies within a red pill lenses.

10 - [TheRedPill] You May Think You Have Swallowed the Pill, but Have You? Or: How I Finally Swallowed the Pill after Seven Years: Part 4

[-] NextBad 1 Point 8 months ago

I think you are taking his words out of context intentionally, no rules is a figure of speech, I don't think he is so much angry but really trying to find himself and removing filters and preconceived notation

240 - [TheRedPill] That moment when I realized I had become... Chad! Be prepared for this milestone in your Red Pill Journey, the audacious circumstances can catapult you ahead or shock you backward.

[-] NextBad 3 Points 8 months ago

this is such a good post, but it is very rigid as chad is something to inspire too as if it's a higher state of existence. I became chad by realizing women want me, I wasn't anything special , it was more about them than me. Women want to get laid. I was closing at a 95% success rate on the first date. Wasn't highly successful , and was skinny.

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>If you aspire to live the life of Chad, walk the walk by acheiving enough success and abundance in your life to fully act the part.

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You can't achieve abundance with women without it, you will always start off as thirsty, focusing on books, hobbies ect.. will never cure that itch , women aren't a lagging indicator of success, otherwise Tesla was a failure and so is Elon Musk .

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Chad's cry, get cheated on , fall in love, make mistakes, they are regularly people , not amazing nor do they have good social skills, they just don't put women on a pedestal and know reality.

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I have a 500% more chance of getting laid if I refuse to talk to her if I assume sex is out of the question. This was the secret/method to my success walking away. Once I realized I had more success by walking away than trying to grow on her it changed everything. I'm not quite sure the obsessiveness with success

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372 - [TheRedPill] Being the Wolf & Being the Sheep in Wolf's Clothing

[-] NextBad 1 Point 8 months ago

> The confidence in his abilities are driven not from the outside, but from within.

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The danger in this is it makes it hard to accept fair and valid criticism , caring about what people think is important, how do you know where the line begins and ends?

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564 - [TheRedPill] You Can’t Get Top Tier Women if You’re Not Working on Becoming a Superior Man

[-] NextBad 1 Point 8 months ago

You won't be good at dating if you don't practice , it's a acquired skill, with a catch 22 , the more she perceives , the better you are. Faking it doesn't mean lie, it just means no one needs your entire life story

564 - [TheRedPill] You Can’t Get Top Tier Women if You’re Not Working on Becoming a Superior Man

[-] NextBad -3 Point 8 months ago

Than Elon Musk and Tesla are the stupidest people on earth

564 - [TheRedPill] You Can’t Get Top Tier Women if You’re Not Working on Becoming a Superior Man

[-] NextBad 0 Points 8 months ago

TRP is about reality, not a specific guideline, if you understand reality you will naturally do the right thing. Discipline , isn't necessary or working hard.

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>http://psychologyofattractivenesspodcast.blogspot.com/2014/07/july-2014-criminals-have-more-kids.html

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Criminals have more children ,

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> My main point is that you can’t get the most gorgeous women if you’re not working on becoming a superior man. Why should the hot girl who busts ass in the gym bother giving you her number? Why should the cute smart girl in your classes go on a date with you, the dumbass of the class?

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This has never been a issue, a fat slob knows why he can't get a hot girl, it's the guy who is discipline, works hard, respects, and the girl chooses a fat slob over him? It seems you haven't read the sidebar but presenting blue pill ideology, it's not your fault, you been so brainwashed and so insecure that focusing on women is now immoral.

> This is “why fake it till you make it” is bad advice. You need to cut out distractions and get to work.

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You still think your special? She doesn't care about you, and wants a good time, putting your shit aside, and focusing on positive emotions even if you don't feel like it, makes her experience better , she is out for herself, not some pseudo authentic feel good crap

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86 - [TheRedPill] Woman abused her boyfriend for years (knocking his tooth out with hairbrush, pouring boiling water on him, using hammers and a KNIFE - you can see the pictures). When blood was observed in house by the police, boyfriend attempts to lie about the whole thing. How can men be nice to this extent?

[-] NextBad 1 Point 9 months ago

Society teaches men to do this

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